Transform
Your SELF
to Transform
Your LIFE
Self-health coaching and speaking for high-performing people ready to
Patty Durell is a Self-Health Coach™ and keynote speaker. She helps driven professionals realize that you must fix yourself before you can fix anything else. Through her 12-week Mental Strength Training program and corporate speaking events, Patty helps you rebuild confidence, energy, and self-trust.

Every time you choose to value yourself, you build back your self-confidence. That is where this work begins.
With constant technology and connection pulling at us 24/7, it's easy to end up overwhelmed, exhausted, and feeling nothing like our healthiest selves. What used to get us through is no longer working.
You are not broken.
You're simply ready for a new inner operating system that actually supports you. Ignoring your needs is not strength. It's a sign it is time to treat yourself with more care, not less.
Real Change Begins
With SELF Compassion
Self health is the decision to stop abandoning yourself and start treating your body, mind, and heart as worthy of care. It begins with self compassion and turns your life from constant coping into intentional living.
Why Do We Keep
Putting Ourselves Off?
We forget we matter, too.
We stay in the same cycles because our inner saboteurs are loud, our habits run on autopilot, and self compassion rarely makes the priority list.
These patterns can feel permanent, but they're not. They are simply familiar. When we see them clearly, we regain choice.
And choice is where change begins.
Our minds are incredible. They help us solve problems, build careers, care for people, and get a lot done.
But they can also be sneaky. If we’re not paying attention, our saboteurs slip in and start guiding our choices. Not in big, dramatic ways. In the small, familiar ways that push us to overdo, overthink, and put ourselves last.
Hi, I’m Patty.
Self-Health Coach™,
Speaker, and Author
Self-Compassion Advocate
And I've been there. This work is not theoretical for me. It is lived.
For years, I was strong for everyone else. I knew how to push through, how to perform, how to carry a lot.
What I did not know was how to stop long enough to notice when I was abandoning myself.
That realization was the beginning of everything.
I didn't need to be fixed. I needed awareness. I needed self-compassion. I needed a new way of relating to my own mind.
This is the work I now help others do.
